death occurs in the family... does not mean all is lost! Who does not feel the
tell you the story of my life... I realized God in 1993. My mother was still alive.
Having reached the stage of Nirvikalpa Samadhi... the whole cosmic wisdom was
at my tips.
Daily when I
returned from office... I used to find my ailing mother sitting
by the side of the main door watching everyone coming in or out.
This was her normal routine. My mother was very weak from the beginning.
In contrast, she was an extremely pious lady.
One day after
returning from office I casually glanced at her. Without flicker
in her eyes, I could feel she was conveying some message. I stopped
for a moment and looked at her face. She was telling that her time
has come to bid goodbye. I knew what it meant. But for someone who
has realized God death loses its meaning.
though I cared for my mother very much... I went upstairs to my room. Next day
also the same thing repeated. Third day also the message conveyed was the same.
I bluntly asked her whether she wanted a 10 year increase in her life. I knew
that such transfer of age would lessen my life by 10 years. All communication
between us was through telepathy (no word was ever spoken).
sort of internally laughed. Why would a failing body want to live more! The soul
atman of my mother conveyed to me that it was on the verge of getting a new body...
Why interfere! I could feel the cheeriness within her... the same feeling a child
enjoys when promoted to next class. The child knows that on being promoted the
mother had promised a new blazer... a new coat! And now the soul of my mother
looked forward to a new body!
also laughed it loud conveying to her that all as destined by God Almighty is
for welfare of all. A day later the soul of my mother left the body. The whole
family, relatives and friends were badly weeping... I was so happy that now my
mother could look forward to a new coat... a new blazer!
is to be taken in its stride. No one is prepared for death in advance. It just
happens! Make yourself busy in something that is most dear to your heart. When
you busy yourself to the extent that you even forget your grandmother at times...
you would regain your composure!
not forget... you are only thinking of yourself! Why not take the responsibility
of the whole family and provide comfort to each one of them. It is only then peace
would prevail in the family. May God bless all!
Kumar "Atma Jnani"
Vijay Kumar... The Man who Realized
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